Marriage on The Journey

 
Greetings,
 
So, you and your significant other are thinking about getting married. Congratulations! I’m happy for you. I’m also happy you’re apparently considering the possibility of getting married at The Journey.
 
Let me tell you why I believe that’s an excellent idea. First, our sacred space is intimate and festive. Second, we are committed to making your big day happy and holy. Third, the cost is very reasonable: $0. That’s right, nothing: zip, zero, zilch.
 
Should you decide to celebrate your wedding at The Journey, we will work with you to set dates for and plan the rehearsal and wedding. I’d like to meet with you both once, so I can get to know you, ask you both some basic questions, and go over with each of you what you want your wedding ceremony to include.
 
After all, just like you, we want this to be the happiest day of your life!
 
Blessings,
 
Rev. Bill Freeman


 

Questions for the couple

 

How long have you two known each other?

Why do you want to get married?

Is this your first marriage?

Any children?

What do you each think about children?

How compatible are you with intimacy?

How well do you two communicate?

Do you argue much?

How were your parents’ marriages?

What do you two do for a living?

What will you do after you’re married?

What’s your financial future look like?

Where will you live?

What kind of spiritual/religious life, if any, will you lead together?

Any plans for a honeymoon?


Suggested Order of Celebration

 

  

 

Prelude

Guest Seating 

Parents Processional

Lighting Of Family Candles (if desired)

Pastor & Significant Other Processional

Participants Processional

Significant Other Processional

Greetings

Prayer

Reading

Vows (community & couple)

Rings

Unity Candle Lighting (if desired)

Song (live, if desired)

Blessings

Kiss

Introduction of Married Couple

Recessional

Postlude

 

11:03 a.m. — Sunday Celebration, Sunday School, Child Care

451 Columbia, Holland, MI 49423; 616.894.0020; thejourneyholland.org

Open & Affirming / Just Peace / United Church of Christ